Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Pure Joy

Neil's parents
Dad :)

Mom :)


Neil and I are both fortunate in that we have extremely selfless parents. Parents who were never handed anything in life and who worked extremely hard to raise a good family, provide for their families and to succeed in their careers. In so doing, Neil's parents and my dad sacrificed every bit of themselves and plenty of opportunities in life in favor of their children. That's why the fact that they are all taking the leap and coming to Hawaii with us is so incredible.
Yes, some of this road to Kona is most definitely self indulgent. Chasing personal dreams and goals to the level required to get to Kona most definitely requires a delicate balance of sacrifice with enough self awareness to avoid becoming too self absorbed in the desire for self realization. But if nothing else good comes of my journey to Kona, I am so incredibly fulfilled and happy that Neil's parents and my Dad are getting to take this trip to Hawaii. I can guarantee you, they would never have taken that risk on their own.
Neil's parents leave tomorrow and when I talked to my Mother in law tonight, I could almost feel her jump through the phone with excitement. For someone who has so selflessly dedicated her life to everyone else around her, its amazing to see and feel the joy she's having in going for it and taking this trip of a lifetime. I'm happy I could provide the excuse and the opportunity for her to do so :)

Life is short. Live boldly. Chase dreams. Take risks. Inspire others. Grab on tight and enjoy the ride....

4 comments:

  1. I love the last line in this post!

    I am so happy that you have family going with you on your big adventure. That is awesome!

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  2. Dudette, that's awesome, the whole fam is going! If my entire fam came out to watch me race an ironman, I'd spontaneously combust from happiness, before the race, not good.

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  3. So amazing. Everyone is so excited and happy for you to be racing your dream race! Enjoy every moment on and off the field! Kona is a very special place!

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  4. Oh I AM SO GLAD your family is going. I wasnt sure they were, and i love your dad, he is so sweet.

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